I don't think I should answer this publicly (or even on LJ), because it *is* (on a much smaller scale of course) an issue between Ben and me. And because I'd likely say something really rude. But part of the reason I work is so I don't have to ask Ben for money (the money I make basically goes to my hobbies etc.)

In any case, I know that you letting me ride for "free" is a problem to James. (And I am still planning to pay for Minnie's hock injection BTW.)