This is a big issue, very big. Though I don't think I am qualified to give advice here, I would like to say that all that I have read seems for the most part reasonable.
From my perspective based on my quick read above, I get the sense that he might be suggesting something that would have a certain kind of effect on him were he in your situation (not that I think such projections always apply) and may be hoping that it would have such an effect psychologically on you--and such an effect might give you confidence and put you guys energetically closer as it would give you more in common--that is, the way you structure you time could have such an effect as to somehow put you in better alignment. I am not sure I am saying this well; does it make any sense? And even if my take on where he is coming from is spot on, what he might have in mind for you might not achieve what he thinks it will.
Also, I know that you feel insecure about your productivity, but reading what you accomplish in a day is quite extensive, and you manage to do what you do while healing some hardcore stuff--this is NO SMALL FEAT.
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goddessfarmer) wrote2007-09-20 03:51 pm
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From my perspective based on my quick read above, I get the sense that he might be suggesting something that would have a certain kind of effect on him were he in your situation (not that I think such projections always apply) and may be hoping that it would have such an effect psychologically on you--and such an effect might give you confidence and put you guys energetically closer as it would give you more in common--that is, the way you structure you time could have such an effect as to somehow put you in better alignment. I am not sure I am saying this well; does it make any sense? And even if my take on where he is coming from is spot on, what he might have in mind for you might not achieve what he thinks it will.
Also, I know that you feel insecure about your productivity, but reading what you accomplish in a day is quite extensive, and you manage to do what you do while healing some hardcore stuff--this is NO SMALL FEAT.
May love and wisdom guide your decisions:)
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