Calandar Confusion

Parties?  I know that there is a *lot* going on December, January and February.  Possibly too much.  But having been out of physical touch for ALL of November, I'm now trying to figure out where I'd like to be when.  The problem is that I've got invites that have come in through 3 different places. So, if you've sent out a party invite, or know of one you'd like to see me at, please comment here. I will try to sort them out and see which/how many I can get to.  Also, if anyone has or knows of good calandar foo that you'd like to share with me, please drop me a pointer.  Thanks!